Friends

My friends here at college are great. But spending time with them so much bothers the living crap out of me. There is one who has no self confidence!! I mean i am not the most confident either but i don't show it! I try as much to act like a strong woman most of the time and others should to! Ugh whenever we mention going out she always asks who is going to be there checking to see if there is someone she could hook up with. If there isn't someone she could hook up with going then she will all of the sudden get tired and not want to go out, no matter how excited she was to go out earlier. And if she starts to like a guy or is somewhat interested in him, and one of us says something about him, like he isn't the most attractive or something bothers us about him, she'll stop. No matter what. Just stop with him because she puts so unconfident in herself that we have to think for her. If you like him, GO OUT WITH HIM!!! It doesn't matter what i think about him! I am not the one that likes him! oh my word. And another friend just got out of a relationship with a guy who "cheated" on her. He kissed another girl when he was drunk. Just a makeout. Thats all. Which i mean is bad, he shouldn't have done it and it is good she broke up with him because it is a good message to give to him. But seriously, don't freaking spaz out when someone says cheating because honestly, you weren't really cheated on. He made a mistake and you were on the bad side of it, but he was sorry. He apologized numerous times and it obviously didn't mean anything to him because he doesnt talk to the girl anymore and he still begs to be with you!!! I don't know if it is just because i am bitter about my situation but she can't even compare our situations to each other. With that said, this friend just started "seeing" a guy. She says it isn't a rebound but from the outside it definitely looks like one. And i am afraid he is taking advantage of her because she is the type of girl to do a lot for her significant other and he is the type of person who likes things being done for him. And he can get some action on the side. And what bothers me the most about her is the fact that she always begs us to keep track of how many times she hangs out with him because she doesn't want to become the girl who is always with her guy. Ok, Fine. I don't really care but if you want me to then fine. But then when i tell her that she has hung out with him x many times in one week she defends herself by saying "no that night didn't count cause we were with other people and we didn't do anything......yada yada yada..." Ok i don't care. You wanted me to tell you, don't attack me for doing what you asked me to do!! Ugh. I think that is all. Another one of my friends is having sex with a guy she is unsure about. She isn't sure if she has any feelings for him but i think she does. I mean it is really tough to have unemotional sex. You eventually develop feeling for that person. She is really confused about it and I am trying to help her figure it all out. Out of all of my friends this relationship i disagree with the most. Or don't agree with how it all happened because it is something i wouldn't do and is against my personal morals, but it bothers me the least. It actually doesn't bother me at all. Weird huh?